In a love situation that is about to end?
Does the thought of life without him cause you pain in your heart?
Are you spending more time crying than laughing?
Have you given up eating as you can’t stomach food?
Then it is time to leave and guess what girl, you are free to do so!
It’s time to stop wasting your precious life on someone who just isn’t on the same page as you.
You can’t make him love you if he is spending more time away from you and gets angry when you ask him where he has been, then do what is best for you, no more putting him first.
If he has been lying to you and you know he has, then it’s time for no more burying your head in the sand. It’s time you stop allowing him to manipulate you.
Why keep him in your life when it is full of deception and in his words ‘misunderstandings’.
Ask yourself does he appreciate me, does he see my worth, does he love me?
If you can’t say yes, then it is definitely time to move on from him for your own sake.
He has gone, now what?
You will be remembering the good times as well as the bad that’s normal to do we all do it.
You may be sitting there thinking how on earth do I get over this?
Did he fight for you when you said you were leaving? If the answer is no, then you already know deep down you were both over long before you took the steps to end it all.
What do you want to do now?
Well, girl, you need to be taking back control of your life. Looking to the future and even doing all the things you couldn’t do when with him.
If you want to cut your hair and go crazy on color then do it!
Book the vacation you dreamed of having and he said no.
Read the book or watch the movie he always said was not worth reading or seeing.
You will suddenly notice just how much he stopped you from doing, simple things that made you happy, that gave you the reason to smile.
Your world will become a nicer place to be.
Acceptance will be key for you now.
Accepting that life is so much different.
Your heart will feel lighter, your soul more at ease.
Letting him go was a difficult decision and one you will always remember, but look forward now, not back, look at the life that is coming your way, and acknowledge that suddenly life is better, and you are free.