Love is blind and it makes sense now. Though I was not a believer of this before.
You can end up loving someone who does not deserve you. You get caught up in your own thoughts and you end up loving things that are not good for you. It makes you stick to the things that are harmful.
Love is so strong that it can even make you fight for a person who does not even deserve your attention. You put in efforts to look after the person you love though they are not the right person for you.
A person suffers when in love, especially if in love with the wrong person. When love starts giving you pain, it becomes impossible to turn back.
Let us tell you how to let go of a toxic relationship and partner that brings you down.
LEARN TO LET GO
Relationships fall apart when they are weak. No matter what you do, the relationship ends. Even if you love your partner, if the relationship is weak and the two are not meant to be together, they won’t end up together. The test of time will fail the relationship.
It is therefore very essential to let go of things or relationships if they do not work out. If you stay with a toxic person, you end up losing your sanity.
TRY TO UNDERSTAND THAT YOU DESERVE MUCH BETTER
It is possible that you are deeply in love with somebody. Your heart starts belonging to them and you give this relationship everything. However, if the other person is not deeply in love with you and the love is not pure, let go of this relationship.
This is important because the energy put on loving the toxic person could have been used in a better way. For instance, you could have showered some love on yourself.
Evaluate yourself and know where you stand. Stay away from toxic people. Learn that you deserve more and there is no point in setting a low standard.
Life can be so much more if you look at it. All you need to do is believe in yourself and go look for the unknown.
STOP WAITING FOR YOUR LOVER TO CHANGE
Many people get stuck in a toxic relationship waiting for things to get better. Not knowing that things do not change that easily. Toxic partners often remain toxic.
Expecting a toxic person to change is near impossible. It may not seem nice to read this but it is actually true. How can someone change just because they’re being asked by you? Things do not work the way we want. Change is always from inside. It can’t be forced. It is better to leave a person than to change things about them.
ACCEPT THE FACT THAT THIS WILL HURT
It is good to accept facts. Relationships are no shortcuts. Leaving a toxic relationship when deeply in love can break a person. It hurts and we all know it hurts. But this is the only solution. These things hurt you and even break your soul, but there is no other way out.
Such things a great lesson teacher. It shows you what is permanent and what isn’t. Just know things happen the way they are supposed to be and for good.
CRY YOUR HEART OUT
When you let go of a toxic relationship, you also let go of the things causing you pain. Believe in this.
Others think it is okay to tell a person going through a bad relationship to act strong and let go. How do they know what we go through?
You keep bottling the emotions and keep them inside. Only to end up in tears one day. What is the point of keeping things inside?
It’s time you let go and show people your emotions. Do not keep them inside because you will keep all inside and it will break you from inside. Let go of the pain. Cry and heal. That is the way to go.
TAKE AS MUCH TIME AS YOU NEED
Take time and let go of your toxic relationship, but do it when you can. Many people love you the way you are. Believe in yourself.