In life, there comes a time when we separate from the one we thought was our soulmate. We thought this person would stay with us forever, but for one reason or another, the relationship ended.
The relationship we shared with them was very important and intimate. For anyone who has ever stayed in a relationship, they know that closeness and connection are the key things.
At times we do not realize it, but things go wrong.
When soulmates break up, it hurts both parties. They go their own ways and it becomes hard for them to survive. This time becomes hard for soulmates because they were really meant to be together. It is painful, but even then one must realize when the relationship is over.
A person goes through the following 8 things when they are not with their soulmates anymore.
You’ll become a different person.
Some heart breaks leave you broken inside out. You change within minutes, or seconds even. You do not realize it, but if you look in the mirror you will find a different person. The pain changes you without even realizing.
You’ll feel extreme amounts of pain.
Separating from your soulmate will cause you pain, and it will be in extreme amounts. It makes you extremely depressed and you feel like you are losing yourself in this separation. It does get better with time, however, it does not always go away like it should.
Your idea of what love should look like will change.
Separation from your soulmate will cause you to look at the world differently. You will have a different perspective regarding love. It makes you think that love will not be a part of your life, but that is not entirely true, it will make you a true appreciator. You will appreciate little things people do in relationships.
You’ll feel like you are barely living for a long time.
Moving from a relationship that you cherish brings down hell on you. You look at your life as an outside person. You run away from people because you find it hard to face them while your life falls apart. This too shall pass and we must remember this.
You’ll become strangers.
It’s hard to stay friends with your ex. No matter what you do the feelings just do not die. Either you are a soulmate or you are nothing. There is no other relationship. Do not think that from a soulmate you will easily turn to friends.
You’ll always think of them from time to time no matter how much time has passed.
Your past will keep coming to you. It is like flashes that you will see from time to time. Feel the feelings and if possible cry your heart out; no point avoiding it. Just do not let them take over your mind. Even though the other person may be on your mind all the time,
You’ll move on with your life because you have no other choice.
Life moves on just like people do. Your life should not stop. Live and let live.
You’ll find love again but it won’t be the same.
The love and relationship you share with your soulmate is different. It is like you love them with all of your heart. Love may find you again in life, but you always compare it to the previous love with your soulmate.
Every love is different and you must cherish it. Go and enjoy your new found love.