Everyone has emotions, but not everyone is emotionally intelligent. Someone who is emotionally intelligent can manage their own emotions and understand the emotions of those around them.
Being emotionally intelligent you will have a big heart and care about people around you like a lot of people. However, you can see through people’s emotions and know who is good and who is toxic.
Caring for others is something that seems to be fundamentally missing on a huge scale with each passing year, so being emotionally intelligent makes you a rare and precious person indeed.
Don’t let people use and abuse you down for caring, these things are signs that should be celebrated not signs that should be looked down upon.
You are kind to most everyone within reason.
You believe kindness is important and you know that some people act out of pain so you take that into account with the more challenging people. This doesn’t mean you can be walked over as you are quite capable of being snappy if needed but usually, it’s not needed.
You believe deeply in love.
You want love just as anyone else, you have so much love to give and you feel that love can heal a lot of wounds. You always try and see the good in others and can tell if they have grown up in a less than loving environment.
You treat others how you would want to be treated.
You treat people kindly and pass on your positive energy to them. You know the world is a harsh place to be and believe that is you treat people the way you want to be treated that level of respect will be returned.
You hate seeing people upset because it makes you sad.
You feel other people’s pain deeply and you hate to see someone upset, their sadness impacts you and lowers your vibrations, it makes you reach out to try and help them whereas others might not care to help.
Sometimes you’re a bit of a people-pleaser even though you know you shouldn’t be.
Because you have such a big heart you try to keep everyone happy even though you know this is impossible to do. You try harder sometimes with the wrong people, but your emotional intelligence will soon kick in and warn you that you are wasting your time.
You’re always doing what you can for the people who matter the most to you.
You will do anything for those you love, nothing is too much effort, you are always there to support them and you make it clear no matter how bad life will get you will not abandon them.
You care deeply about Mother Earth.
You are a huge eco-warrior, you see the damage being done to the planet and you feel this deeply. You can be found clearing trash that others have thoughtlessly left behind and being cautious about what products you use in case they are toxic to the planet.
You tend to be quite curious about other people.
As someone with high emotional intelligence, you are quite curious about other people. You have to get to know others and work out who they really are in your own mind. You can see people clearly for what and who they are.
You do not hold grudges.
Everyone makes mistakes and you will not be someone who holds grudges as that is a waste of time and energy.
You love making memories.
Life is about memories and you love to make as many memories as possible with those you love. You want to make the most of this life and you want others to remember times with you and have happy thoughts.
You can sometimes be a bit too sensitive.
Things can negatively affect you too, you know this and are aware of it, yet you can still react in a manner that people perceive as being too sensitive. There is no such thing as being too sensitive as if that is what you are feeling then no one should tell you that you can’t feel that way.